April 18, 1949 - April 1, 2020
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Posted by:
Tara Ratliff Barnett
Posted on:
April 7, 2020
Brenda was a loving, soft-spoken, kind-hearted lady. I enjoyed having her as a teacher and later on teaching with her in Blue Primary. Adrian, Alan, Aaron, Kristen and the rest of the family... I am so very sorry for your loss. Love and prayers, Tara
Posted by:
Kristy Christian
Posted on:
April 6, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. Brenda was like a 2nd mom to me. She took such great care of my daughter Alex when she was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes in 3rd grade. I didn't have to worry while she was in Brenda's care. I also loved that we shared the same birth date. I know how much she loved and enjoyed her family. She will truly be missed! My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Posted by:
Danielle and Jason Tipton
Posted on:
April 6, 2020
Alan, Kristen, and Family, We just wanted you to know that you are in our prayers as you grieve the loss of your sweet mother. Love, Jason, Danielle, and Aubrey Tipton
Posted by:
Lisa Bailey Tomlinson
Posted on:
April 6, 2020
So many precious memories of Brenda,& Winton. Brenda always had that sweet smile. I pray God gives you peace & comfort as only he can during the days ahead. What a celebration is going on in Heaven!! Lisa Bailey Tomlinson
Posted by:
Robert Seaver
Posted on:
April 6, 2020
Fifty years ago Brenda became a cherished member of our expanding Seaver family, and her name has remained prominent on our family's list of enduring blessings. Brenda became another wonderful in-law to me; but she was so much more than that. My parents loved her because of her devotion to, and love for, their son Winton. This undying love was best exemplified as Brenda faithfully cared for husband Winton during his lengthy battle with Lou Gehrig's disease. Brenda was so quiet, humble, and unpretentious that her remarkable 41-year teaching career might go unheralded, were it not for the testimonials of hundreds of former students who fondly remember her to this day. But the most convincing proof of Brenda's success as a teacher is the evidence reflected in the exemplary lives of her three children: Aaron, Adrian, and Alan. These three sons will always be Brenda and Winton's most enduring legacy. And though both Brenda and Winton left us much too soon, I can still sense their presence each time I am with these three wonderful nephews. -- Robert
Posted by:
Martha Durham
Posted on:
April 5, 2020
So so sorry for the loss of Brenda. She was such a blessing to my family. Our church "pew group" will not be the same without her. When I hink of her now, I think she is smiling big time! And I pray God will comfort your hearts as only He can.
Posted by:
Rick Parker
Posted on:
April 5, 2020
Brenda was truly l joyful light to all those who she met. She always smiles every Sunday to everyone. So many times she would stop me to offer uplifting words of encouragement. She was faithful to her church and loved her family so much. She will be missed by all, but she is beyond any more sickness or pain. Love you all and praying for strength, peace and comfort.
Posted by:
Bertie Johnson
Posted on:
April 5, 2020
I thought so much od Brenda. She always asked how I was doing and showed love and compassion. I wish I could have attended in person. My prayers to all the family. Bertie
Posted by:
Landon & Pam Roberson
Posted on:
April 5, 2020
We are so sorry for the loss of your mother! She was a wonderful person! Our daughter Adrienne had her in 3rd grade. She loved her! She always remembered Adrienne any time we saw our out in town or in a restaurant. She always came up to her to talk to her and called her by name. After Adrienne got married she moved to Alabama and anytime I ran into her after that she always asked me how Adrienne was doing in Alabama. I know you will miss her!
Posted by:
Leslie Parker Stanley
Posted on:
April 5, 2020
Dear Seaver family I am so very sorry for your loss! Thoughts and many prayers to you all. I love you all.
Posted by:
Amy Vaughn
Posted on:
April 5, 2020
Dear Seaver family, Brenda was such a sweet and thoughtful person. We will miss seeing her and talking to her at church every week. Our thoughts and especially our prayers are with you now and in the days ahead. Bobby and Amy Vaughn
Posted by:
Brandy McCracken
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Alan and Kristen, I was so sorry to hear about your momma! Know that you both are in my prayers.
Posted by:
Mabel Wolf
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Thoughts And Prayers for your family.
Posted by:
Lee & Robin Evans
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
So sorry for your loss
Posted by:
Don Watterson
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
So for the loss to your family.
Posted by:
Linda Ray
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Arron, Adrian and Allan, Your mom was a great person, teacher and friend. She was proud of her family. My family loved her. May God comfort your hearts and give you peace. Just know that you will see her and your dad again one day! Love and prayers, Linda and Jackie Ray
Posted by:
Tyler, Amanda, Gavin, and Gracie
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Brenda was a special lady! A blessing to so many in our church and community. We are continuing to pray for this special family.
Posted by:
Kevin and Sara Adams.
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
So sorry for your loss and that we could not be there in person to pay our respects. I never knew your mother but my oh my did Kevin love and respect her. We will continue to keep you all in our prayers during this difficult time. I can’t imagine the celebration she is having at this time. Love and prayers, The Adams. Kevin, Sara, Bailey, Alleigh, Anslee, and Aubrey.
Posted by:
Earl and Raquel Dunn
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
She had the biggest and brightest smile we’ve ever seen! She lit up a room when she entered! Such a blessing to get to know her over the last several months! Loved how kind and sweet her spirit was. We can definitely see that reflected in Alan. We love y'all and are here if you need anything!
Posted by:
Janet & David Clark
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Deepest sympathy on the loss of your Mother. She was such a sweet lady and will be missed. May God surround you with his peace and comfort in the days ahead.
Posted by:
Jennifer Jones
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Kristen and Alan, I am so sorry for your loss. I never met Brenda, but getting to know the two of you these last two years, I feel like I knew her a little. I know how much she meant to both of you and I know she will be deeply missed! Praying for you all and love you both!
Posted by:
Sarina Hurd and Shirley Sams
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Sorry for your loss. Praying for your family during this time.
Posted by:
Mark Ferguson
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Praying for you Alan and your family during this time. God bless you all.
Posted by:
Ronda Morelock & mom, Frances Ellis
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Deepest sympathy to all the family for the loss of your dear mother. She was a sweet lady! I got to know her at the widow & widowers dinners. I looked forward to seeing her each month. We will all miss her and share in your loss. Love to all, Frances
Posted by:
Jimmie Stinson Norris
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
So very sorry for your loss! I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers! Love and hugs from your cousin in KY.
Posted by:
Jackie and Joan Needham
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
We just want to express our condolences to the family. You guys were raised by some wonderful Christian parents and it shows in your lives. One of the kindest families we know. Brenda was an excellent example to all who knew her. We know this is a hard time and friends will not be able to attend due to the virus, but we are watching the live streaming. We love you all and you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Jackie and Joan Needham
Posted by:
Sherry Ellis
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Dear Seaver family, I am so sorry for your loss. Brenda was always so sweet and kind with a smile on her face. She will be greatly missed. You and family will be in my prayers.
Posted by:
Roger and Judith Winegar
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss. Winton and Brenda were precious. We love you and are lifting you up in prayer.
Posted by:
Elaine Feagins
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
My condolences and prayers to all the family. Only knew Brenda for a few years when she joined the Widows and Widowers group Dad started when mom died, but felt like I had known her a lifetime. I went to school with Winton. She was a special lady and good friend.
Posted by:
Trent Parker
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
My introduction to elementary education was with Mrs Seaver in first grade at CHES. Going from being home with mom to being with a group of kids my age with one adult every school day was quite a transition. I don’t think I could have had a kinder or better teacher to start my journey with. She was unforgettable. My condolences to the family.
Posted by:
Renee Ball
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Brenda was a very sweet and special lady. As sad as it is, that we can't attend the service because of the pandemic, I can only imagine the great reunion between her and Winton on those beautiful streets of Heaven. Kyle and I are keeping all of the Seaver family in thoughts and prayers in the days to come. Kyle and Renee Ball
Posted by:
Patty Alley
Posted on:
April 4, 2020
Alan, Adrian, Aaron, and Becky Lawson. We are so sorry about Brenda. We loved her, she was such a sweet person. I know she and your Dad were so proud of you boys. Take comfort in knowing that they are together in heaven now. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I wish we were able to see you in person but this virus restriction will not allow us to do so. We love you all! Shorty & Patty Alley
Posted by:
Teresa Brooks Taylor
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
Alan and family,We are so sorry for you loss. Ms. Seaver was always such a nice person. Holding you in our thoughts and prayers. The Taylors, Teresa, Rodney & Cameron.
Posted by:
Tina Evans
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
I was so very sorry to hear of your moms passing. She was always so sweet and kind. My family and I loved your parents very much. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Posted by:
Bob and Kay Grimes
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
Prayers and sympathy in the loss of your dear family member. We especially send our condolences to sister, Rebecca! We miss seeing you since you moved! Please know you are in our prayers! Bob and Kay Grimes
Posted by:
Buck & Brenda Tipton
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
Brenda was a very sweet lady and our thoughts and prayers are with the Seaver family.
Posted by:
Buck & Brenda Tipton
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
Brenda was a very sweet lady. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Posted by:
Susan Kitchings
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
Our condolences to the family and friends. I didn't know Brenda, but went to church with her husband's family when I was growing up.
Posted by:
Rhonda
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss of your precious mother. Praying for comfort for your family. Love, Ed and Rhonda Ragsdale
Posted by:
Patricia Moore
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
Aaron, Adrian, and Allen - I don't have the words to express how sorry I am for the loss of your Mother. She was so kind every time I would see her. We would talk about Winton and how good he could play the piano and sing. I know they are rejoicing in Heaven. I wish I could be there for you, but this virus has shut everything down. You have been in my thoughts and prayers, and will continue to be. All of you guys are such good men. You had great parents that took you to Church and taught you about God. I Loved both of them, and I love you all too. Brenda does not have to suffer anymore. You will be reunited again soon. Until then cherish the many memories you have of both parents. I will be praying for all of you. Love, Patricia Moore
Posted by:
Mark Johnson
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
Covid19 means a closed service, which is somewhat sad . . . on the surface. But only on the surface. Brenda's arrival in Heaven was VERY public! On this side, we can only imagine what what she is experiencing, but the Bible assures us is AWESOME!!! Hold to and ponder on this blessed truth. "What a day that will be . . .
Posted by:
laxmi kondapalli
Posted on:
April 3, 2020
I am Aren's friend, I got very emotional when I heard this sad news. I know how much Aren loves his mom , he always talks about her and his childhood memories when we all go for a walk in Office. I never met Brenda but from Aren , such a good hearted and helping soul I can imagine how great his Mom Brenda was. Blessed to have such a best friend and Hope your mom is in Heaven and you stay strong we are all one family in this universe and we are all with you.
Posted by:
Valerie Sandidge
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
Arron, Adrian, and Alan, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your sweet mother. Brenda was so good to me when I worked with her many years ago. She was so proud of all of you. I’m sorry I can’t be there but I am praying for you all. Val Sandidge
Posted by:
LaDonna Christian
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
I am so sorry to hear about Brenda passing away. Brenda always had a smile on her face, Dylan loved having her for a teacher. My prayers are with the Seaver family. LaDonna & Steve
Posted by:
Carol Williams
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
Brenda was a sweet lady whom I will never forget. She had such a deep abiding love for her family. To the entire family....my prayers and sympathy....Love Carol Williams
Posted by:
Lori Lane
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
Brenda was a sweet and precious woman. We know you will miss her but she and Winton are having a big reunion. We love you all and are keeping you in our prayers. Wish we could be there to love on you in person. Jamey and Lori Lane
Posted by:
Pam Linkous
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
Brenda was a fantastic teacher who taught both my girls during Church Hill Elementary Schools multi- age program years. So yes we had the privilege of her knowledge and love for a total of five years. I also had the privilege of being a coworker with her. She loved her school kids so much. She will be greatly missed.
Posted by:
Amy DeMorrow
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
Mrs. Seaver was my favorite teacher at Church Hill Elementary (4th Grade - 1984-1985). I think I was her little pet, but she still wouldn't let me get away with a darn thing! She was amazing and I'll always remember her. The family is in my thoughts.
Posted by:
Wilma Holder
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
Brenda was such a loving lady. I'm so sorry for your loss. Praying for the family. Pray that God wraps his loving arms of comfort around you.
Posted by:
Georgia Stinson Brownfield
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your families are in my prayers
Posted by:
Kathy Gilson/Ann Kirby
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
Dear Seaver family., Mom and I are very sorry for your loss. Our sympathies to you al.
Posted by:
Susie Armstrong
Posted on:
April 2, 2020
Aaron, Adrian, Alan and family, I am so very sorry. Your family has been a part of my family since your mom and dad were married. You are precious to me and I am so sorry that we cannot physically be there to support you during this time. Please know we are with you in thought and prayers. Brenda always had the sweetest things to say to me and always told me how much she missed my mom. I will now miss seeing her every Sunday. You have wonderful parents and they will forever be with you. I was blessed to know them both. Love, Susie